Episode 77

#77 - Self-Awareness & Dating w/ Slim

We’ve been on a mental & emotional deep diving streak here on First Of All, & this time we’re back on one of our fav topics: DATING. There’s so much from our previous episodes that come into play in this murky, beautiful, maddening world of chemistry & courtship - love, anxiety, stress, self-discovery, the list goes on. Minji invites Steve Lim aka Slim back to FOA to get updates on his dating life since he last sat down to talk about getting into the world of dating apps. If you’ve struggled with ghosting, rejecting & rejection, coming up with first date ideas (or tolerating really bad ones), problematic gender rules & evolving social expectations, all while truly trying to figure yourself out, we are here for you. This definitely ain’t an easy road, but at least we have each other, right?

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  • Slim

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